supporting my mum

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My mum was recently diagnosed with a pretty much incurable cancer and has started chemo. I am in my early twenties and moving across the country to live at home again and support her, as we have no other family in the country. I honestly don't know what to expect, plan for, or do to help my mum. Usually, I would ask her for advice, but I can't this time. 

  • Hi Cpop,

    I am sorry you have to go through this, my heart goes out to you!

    I have gone through something similar and one thing that was really helpful was to take it one day at a time. When I would feel myself getting worked up about the future, I would think about my mum, that she’s still here now, and I would feel somewhat comforted. You also cannot know how she’ll respond to treatment, it could go very well, so who knows what the future holds. I read some people here that have lived with cancer for many years, I’ve also met a few.

    I think you’re already doing the most important thing - you’re there for her. It’s immensely comforting that she’s not alone, and not just that, she has her child close.

    Please reach out if you feel that it’d help.