Hi, My names G 28 Brit currently living in Australia.
I've recently received news from back home that my step-mum has been diagnosed with lung cancer. Chemo and surgery are not an option. She and my dad have been together for 10+ and I lived with them partly before I left the UK 5 years ago. They're planning to tie the knot in December which has broke my heart. I feel helpless and guilty. Helpless I understand as I’ve lost people to this battle before. But the guilt feels overpowering. I’m currently 10,500 miles and unable to leave the county pending application processing.
I want to make sure they are both equipped with the resources available help, advice and recommendations welcome.
Hi GBA
You may find if you call the helpline or contact them on this link the MacMillan Buddies can contact the family members and they will either call them or visit them for support going through the process they can also refer them to other help services for ongoing support :
Hope this helps and helps put your mind at rest a little
I hope all goes well for you and the family
Take Care
Tony
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