Carers at home needed

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Hi all my mum 73, has done amazing battling stage 4 Bowel , liver cancer for 6 1/2 years ( only given 10% chance of living 4!) 

but now is at home end stage of life and confined to a hospital bed . 
we need support to have someone in just in the mornings to help to bed bath her . We tried calling the local council which only said they could help if we rang every morning and they’d see if they could send someone . 
We’ve called palliative care team and they will see what they can sort .

Are we supposed to source a carer ourselves and fund it ?? 
many help/advice would be great 

thank you 

  • Hello danjast

    I am very sorry to hear that your Mum is now at end stage of life and confined to bed. It must be very hard for you all as a family. 

    Naturally you need some support with Mum and I hope that the Palliative care team have come back to you with some further support. 

    I will pop a link below which will take you to some information that you may find helpful, however please do give the Support Line a call if you feel talking it all through would help. They may also be able to look at what may be available in your local area.

    Practical support for carers | Macmillan Cancer Support

    I hope this helps a bit but if there is anything else that you need, please do ask.

    Jane

           

    Macmillan Support Line - 0808 808 00 00, 7 days a week between 8am-8pm

  • Thank you for your reply , palliative care have organised someone to come and help once a day from Monday . The link you sent is really helpful too 

    many thanks 

    Danielle 

    Danielle

  • Hi Danielle

    Am so pleased that palliative care has organised daily help from Monday. Hopefully it will make a difference

    If there is anything else you need, please do ask 

    Jane

           

    Macmillan Support Line - 0808 808 00 00, 7 days a week between 8am-8pm