How do I prepare my young children (7 and 5) for the death of their grandmother? My eldest asked tonight what's wrong with her and when will she be better. I dodged the question as he suggested that she feels old. However, she's deteriorating fast and my children are bound to ask more questions. What do I say?
Hello Sian J
I am sorry to hear that you are having to prepare your young children for this. Many years ago I was in the same position with my son.
There is a children's book called Badger's Passing gifts that maybe worth getting.
There is some more advice in this booklet that may also be of help.
Talking to children and teenagers booklet | Macmillan Cancer Support
You are also welcome to give the Support Line a call if you think talking things through may help. The number is below and they are lovely on there. They may also be able to do a search on the area where you are to see if there is any local support. I would also recommend that you talk to the children's school as they will be able to also offer support and access other services if needed.
I hope this helps a bit but if there is anything else you need, please do ask.
Jane
