NOT good news husband went through 4 lots of chemo for oesophageal cancers between had all checks with doctors great for operation shark attack but went down and wham he didn't get it removed as he had a hernia and found a tumour in bowel not sure what's next wait for bio results so far had 4 loads of chemo for a small tumour neither near heart or lung infarct there were impressed he ate well very movement all through it usual things cold tired etc so was in shock when found he not had it removed and hernia was removed in stead because of bowel tumour dont know any more than that WHY OH WHY HE HAD 2 MRI 2 BOWEL CAMBRA JOBS 1 DOEN HIS THROAT AN NO SAW IT !! ONLY LAST TIME AT HOSPITAL THEY SAID SOMETHING ABOUT A BLOOD IN BOWEL HE NOT HAD ANY PROBLEMS WITH THAT END OF HIS BODY AND I KNOW MY HUSBAND HE WILL NOT KEEP UP WITH ANY MORE CHEMO I AM LOST AT THE MOMENT WITH IT ALL , SO MUCH HOPE FOR OP TO GIVE HIM SOME LIFE BUT NOW ALL GONE AS FAR AS HE SEES , HE ONLY WENT IN YESTERDAY 17TH APRIL NOW LOST
Hi onos
It does sound like your poor husband as been through such a lot and I know on here we all recognize the impact this has as we watch our loved ones going through so much.
I hope you manage to find some time to help you recharge, I know I had to learn how to look after myself when my wife was really ill - but it took me getting some help too.
<<hugs>>
Steve
