Devastated that my 30 year old close family member has been given a 12 month prognosis. The oncologist did not mince his words but added that 12 months is really for someone much older then didn’t elaborate further. How can these bombs get thrown with very little (actually zero) explanation or reassurance? My partner is now convinced their (adult) child is about to die yet treatment hasn’t even begun yet. Looking for any similar situations and/or reassurances, or are there more questions we could be asking? Thanks for listening.
Hi ElleEssie
So sorry to read this, unfortunately some oncologists who are dealing with cancer cases every day can forget the impact their words can have on others.
My wife was very clear she never wanted a prognosis and I really struggled with that, however she responded beyond all expectations to treatment and are now living with rather than dying from cancer.
I cannot really imaging the feelings of your partner worrying about their child, it might help to discuss this on the helpline with one of our team.
<<hugs>>
Steve
