It appears my dad is now having palliative care only , and is getting weaker by the day. I am sure I have seen recommendations before for books on how to explain death to children but I cannot find it. Does anybody have any suggestions which books might help me explain this situation to my 5 and 3 year old. Thanks
HI SJS
a warm welcome to the group. So sorry to hear about your dad. Life's too cruel.
Explaining things to kids is difficult as you don't want to risk scaring them. There are a few books available Here's the links to a couple
There's also a link from the main website for young carers. It's aimed at an older age group but some of the content may prove useful
Being a young carer for someone with cancer | Macmillan Cancer Support
We were in a similar situation with my aunt this time last year and my young cousin was worried about scaring her young son (he was 6 at the time). She used language he would understand and basically kept it simple, explaining that sometimes the doctors can't make the right medicine to make the person better.
It’s always good to talk so please remember that you can also call the Macmillan Support Services on 0808 808 00 00 - most services are open 8am to 8pm, 7 days a week Clicking here to see what is available. This service provides lots of cancer information, emotional support, benefit and financial guidance or just a listening ear.
I hope this has helped.
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love n hugs
Wee Me xx
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HI SJS
found another link
Preparing a child for loss | Macmillan Cancer Support
was looking for something else and stumbled across this one.
love n hugs
Wee Me xx
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