Hello, I am new to this group. My dad got his first tumour in his right arm about 2 years ago and had his arm amputated due to it growing too fast. It then came back in his lung and has had a third of his lung removed a few months ago. However it has now came back already but this time there’s 3 new tumours in that same lung and it’s too aggressive so is inoperable and incurable. He’s been given weeks maybe months left to live. He has gone into hospital today for his first round of chemo but has had to be admitted for 2 days as it’s such a strong form of chemo. However the past few days he has been making no sense, really confused and just really delirious. Was wondering if anyone else has experienced that in later stances of cancer? I’m really struggling, I’m 21 and my sister is only 15 so I’m trying so hard to be strong and keep my family together but I am not sure if he’s already too far gone for them to even do chemo as he’s so confused and so ill. Or if the chemo will make him worse. Really worried and would love some advice also ways to deal with this pain. It just doesn’t seem real, I still can’t and refuse to believe he doesn’t have long left. It’s so quick how it all happens it is so cruel and not fair. Any support, advice, Information welcome. Thanks.
