Hi all,
My Mum has recently been diagnosed with cancer in her breast which has started to spread to her lymph nodes.
They have also seen a mass on her CT by her pelvis and are unsure if this is also cancer, she is seeing an oncologist tomorrow and should hopefully find out.
She has a treatment plan but unsure if this new mass will change that.
To be honest I am struggling with accepting this news, the mass on her pelvis was found in A&E yesterday, I sent my Mum to A&E as she was not feeling well. Sounds silly but I kind of blame myself for this being found.
I don't know what to do or say about the current situation.
Sorry to hear about your mum and fingers crossed for the appointment tomorrow. I do not think you sound silly at all but perhaps concerned that things were not perhaps as straightforward as might have been hoped.
If might help if we look through Your feelings when someone has cancer as I found it helped me understand my own emotions and therefore be better able to support my wife. I did a living with less stress course that helped me focus more on the here and now but also helped when we got a knockback that seemed to come out of the blue.
Keep talking and together we can make a great team.
<<hugs>>
Steve
