New to the Group worried about mum

Big hugs here for you... don't hesitate to message me at any time in private messages if u want... xxx

My father also didn't want to go through the chemotherapy road. But I talked with out of it, so hopefully he will, if he is strong enough and can handle it. I cannot answer to your question about what to expect from here on, I only want to send you my best wishes and a big hug.

Thankyou for your response. That’s great that you have managed to change your fathers mind. Thing is with my mum she is so independent and no matter what I say I don’t think she will change her mind and I have to respect that. It’s just so so tough I feel like every day is a day of worry and I don’t know how to shake it off. I send my love abs wishes to you too hunni 

You are so right, in that we have to respect their wishes. I think that my father is doing this just for us to tell you the truth. His oncologist said, as his cancer is unresectable that if he can't handle the first rounds he will take him out of the drugs and maybe try something alternative. A doctor mentioned cannabis oil to me, do you happen to know anything about this kind of treatment? Perhaps your mother could try something like this, an alternative way?

Hi nobody has mentioned cannabis oil to us yet but I do know another lady on here her dad has tramadol and cannabis oil for the pain rather than morphine so I do think they use it for cancer patients x