Hi, I am 59 and my husband is 64, we have been married for 42 years, 12 months ago he was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer in both lungs
and spine, although he is doing quite well on his treatment we know he will not get better, we are struggling as a couple to find a balance that works, he doesn't like to talk about his cancer or how he feels and this is causing problems because I feel shut out even though that's not what he means to do, I am scared and need to talk sometimes.
Hi - type on here whenever you need, someone is always listening but if you need to hear a voice and an instant fix the helpline is open 7 days a week 8am to 8pm. I have cried at them in the past and they are very patient.
If you use our in your area tool you can also find other support services near you (or the hospital) too.
<<hugs>>
Steve
