Hi, this is my first time on here. My nan is in her last days, she hasn’t eaten for 4 days, other meds have stopped except morphine which she is now refusing. She’s all confused and cant hardly speak anymore.. Her hubby and My mum and auntie are with her so she is not alone. I wanted to send something up to her but worried it won’t get there in time. I’m scared and don’t no what words to say to her but need to to before it’s to late. Anyone no how to do this without breaking down. I don’t want her to get upset or do anything to make her feel sadder than the whole situation could be x
Hi
Sorry to hear about your nan, though clearly with what you write here it is clear how much you care - and perhaps that is the best gift of all.
You say your mum and auntie are with her - could you send them a message they could pass on - then your nan will know you are thinking of her and you can compose yourself to get the message just right.
<<hugs>>
Steve
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