Work

Hi Becky88, I'm sorry you have to put up with that at work, like life isn't hard enough as it is right? I would ask for a meeting with my line manager and ask them for their rationale behind making the decision, it could be something you haven't thought about. You are then armed with reasuring them that you can meet their needs even if you move seats, also stress how you feel emotionally and how your wellbeing will be affected with this change. If they value you and are understanding hopefully they will help you.

I am emotional at work, I cry on the way in, sometimes in the toilets and I'm hoping no-one gets on my nerves or ill blow. It's tough, especially at work when you are trying to do the job your paid for but when you go through something like this it feels so irrelevant. 

Take care and I hope you resolve the issue. Xx

Hi leer1975

Thanks for getting back to me i spoke to my line manager the day it was announced and raised my issues. The persons seat i wish to move into is a new starter and i think he is trying to Center us both between them which i get. But i do currently work alot with the supportive work friend. Im Just  finding it hard to understand how this is an issue for them to be honest.

I then brought up the support side of it which my line manager said they understood and said leave it with them. To be told later on in the day its still a no. Yet other peoples requests on seating have been approved. Makes me think my line manager doesnt value me and wants me to feel alone or isolated in the workplace. Im dreading work tomorrow and the new seating situation and now feel there is nothing i can do.

I also find mysef in the toilets crying and i can be sat at my desk and want to burst in to tears at any random moment it’s horrible :( xx

Just a quick update i spoke to the manger above my line manager and the request has been approved they are also looking at getting me Extra support in work so fingers crossed i may start to feel less up and down we will see x