Hello,
It's been 2 years now since my mother was diagnosed with lymphoma. Luckily she is okay now (for the moment) however i've been really struggling with my emotions lately. Ive never really done anything like this before and not had any family members to talk to as its just me and her. I find myself being angry all the time, taking it out on people around me and her as well. Shortly after I fall into a depression and the cycle continues. I guess what I would like to know is does anyone have any advice on how to manage anger and depression? Is there any methods that have worked for other people to get them out of a slump.
Thank you.
Oh my you’ve been through such a lot. And completely understandable that you feel angry and sad. I have been there. And am no expert on solutions but I wonder if it would help if you said everything you felt in a safe space? Or wrote it all down like all the anger and maybe even anger at your mum? In a similar situation I was angry at a partner for dying. Sometimes the feelings calm when they are allowed to be heard. If this doesn’t suit you just think what would make you feel even a little bit better.? Xx
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