Hi, my partner has recently been diagnosed. We are at the stage of telling people and updating people with the situation. The one thing that has really stood out to me is the amount of toxic positivity. I understand people don't know what to say, they want to be kind, make you/them feel better however, it jars so much when you keep hearing "think positive, it will be fine, forget about it for the weekend" etc. Has anyone else experienced this? Do you ignore it? call it out? Personally i've been calling it out in a nice way. The more people are aware of toxic positivity the better moving forward. People just mean well i guess.
Wow I don't know what to say about that. Difently wouldn't be the words I'd want to hear. Gosh I go Tuesday to see mine cause of ainexity and panic attacks due to the cancer its like being on an emotional Rollercoaster we can't get off of and no one ever seems to know what to say. Cause it's hard sometimes to remember were lucky to still be here with all the pain they don't feel or can't see or the emotions that eat us up some days. I'm truly sorry for ur experience with your doctor I'd find another one.
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