My husband has just left me!

I have, my so called husband left me last July, said he couldn’t cope with the cancer any more and thought I was going to die.I had no idea he had planned on leaving until 20mins before he left with all his stuff in bin bags as I had just come home. I was devastated, we had been married 2 weeks short of 34yrs. I too since discovered he had been on a dating app for the previous 5weeks and found someone to take him on only having met her 3 times but numerous phone calls as his phone bill is in my name. It was hard to cope with at first, but after the shock comes anger, I hated him. I am quite a strong person and have 2 foster children at home who support me immensely. I began to find that I quite liked the single life, come and go as I please do what I want when I want, not having to cook his meals at 9pm when he got in from work not worrying what he was doing on his phone or iPad as he was quite secretive. I started divorce proceedings before Xmas and to sort the house out, which he said I could have plus the car and 3 watches. He was shocked when he got an email from the solicitors about the divorce, he thought that I would take him back, never ever now. So please Ell you must be strong, don’t look back look forward to a new life, I take each day as it comes, as long as you have the support from family and friends you will be ok I promise. Xx Janette

You are a fantastic woman. he don't deserve you. Michel