Hi all,
My husband has been diagnosed with terminal kidney cancer that has spread to lungs
its a new diagnosis since 20 Jan 2026. And was a huge shock
He has started immune therapy pills and intravenous every fortnight for 12 weeks then once a month.. I know it’s very hard for him and he has my sympathy.. He has had cancer 3 times before starting when he was 24 then again at 26 and finally at 28 then cancer free uptill now age 69
im really struggling with everything right now and really don’t know what to do.. since diagnosis things have gone downhill and he doesn’t seem to want to venture out anywhere which I’m finding hard.
he’s always been by my side for 47 years and not having that is very hard for me. I feel I’m a prisoner in my own home now and just getting up eating and going back to bed
i I don’t want to sound selfish but I think he should get out for fresh air and a bit of a break from sitting in a chair in the same room however he’s breathing is now awful but not sure it’s just down to the lungs
thanks for listening 
Yes, the Macmillan Staff member just lifted the complete discussion directly from the New to Community area into a new thread in the Carers Group.
