My husband has neuroendocrine cancer which was diagnosed in 2020 in December 2022 he had major surgery removing his pancreas and spleen now he has recently started chemotherapy. Everyone said how hard this would be but I just can’t believe how quickly it has affected him. I am so great full that he has been offered chemo but at the same time it is so difficult juggling everything when he is so tired and doesn’t want to do anything.
I feel so selfish at the moment as I am constantly crying feeling that our lives are being put on hold and this is not me blaming my husband I just feel it is so unfair he is 37 and I am 30 and we are desperate for children and to just live our lives. Having children is still a big part of our lives and part of me now feels is it unfair to bring a child into the world in our situation.
