Feeling stressed, low and scared of losing him.

Hey Miracle2023...

As you know, there are no easy answers.  The good thing is that you understand yourself well enough to see what is going on and can see where your personal struggles are.

Your partner is probably very scared too - I hope that you can both make space to talk about how scared you are and go through this together. 

If you are feeling depressed and anxious, you should probably talk to your GP.  They may be able to point you to services in your area that may help you to get through the current difficult situation.

I hope that you have some some trusted friends and family who you can talk to when you are struggling also.  If you can engage a few people and get them to understand what you are struggling with then they can help you to share the load and just be there when you need to talk and your partner isn't up to is.

And you will see many people on here saying that you need to learn to live day to day for the time being.  Not forever - just for now to help you cope.  I used to worry about lots of things when my wife was first ill.  Most of them didn't happen and I just wasted lots of energy worrying- when I would have been better focusing on the present.

For now... make sure you are getting time for yourself as well - you can't look after your partner if you aren't looking after yourself.

Pete

Thank you so much xx 

So sorry to hear your struggling   my partner has incurable cancer and I'm having councilling which is helping but its hard my anxiety  is real bad but ive found this sitetsite to be such a support .Always here to listen xx

Holmes thank you for your reply too xx