Hi
My husband has recently diagnosed with CUP (cancer of unknown primary). He’s become so spiteful toward me that I’m finding it so hard to cope. We should be making the most of whatever time we have left.
Nobody from oncology has told us anything although he has a telephone appointment next month.
I feel so low. He won’t let me sleep and I can’t be in the room without him being so cruel. I feel like I’ve already lost him.
I think it may be the morphine but it hurts
Hi MRH I dont know what to say to make any of that better for you, except to say that we are here for you whenever you need us to be. I thought it might be good to let you know that you are not alone when we are here and Im sending some huge big hugs your way for now. xxx
Thank you. He hasn’t been as bad last two days. It’s a struggle all the time. Good and bad days.
Damian isn’t on morphine. He was offered but refused. He takes cocodemol.
I think mine is getting used to the morphine as he was a whole lot better last night. He’s so tired thuygh
Hi MRH maybe its their way of pushing us away from them, so they think it will be easy on us when they are no longer around, i don't know what goes through their heads but its bloody hard xx
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