Counselling

Hi Loz66 

sorry to hear that things have progressed. 

Counselling isn't something I've gone for yet (still don't feel quite ready to talk) but my 22 year old daughter had a few sessions with a counsellor. My husband is terminal and my daughter found the sessions helpful

There are several routes in to getting some support. You could call the MacMillan help line (the number is below) or perhaps talk to your GP or local hospice. It may also be something your employer can offer so its worth asking.

Also remember this group is here for you too so please reach out anytime. There's always someone around who gets it, someone to listen, to hold your hand and to offer that virtual hug when its needed.

Sending you a huge virtual hug, love and light. Stay strong.

love n hugs

Wee Me xx

Hi I don’t think it can make things worse and you may find it useful to talk to someone who’s not emotionally involved. I’ve just referred myself to a local counselling service as I wasn’t finding it easy to talk to family and friends even though they kept offering a listening ear. Try it and see how you find it, I’m sure you’ll know quickly if it’s right for you.

Sending best wishes

Thank you.   I think I am going to try it

Go for it! I had a series of counselling sessions (through work) soon after my partner's diagnosis. We talked about different things but it was SO helpful.  Just being able to say things out loud to someone who didn't judge was good. And having someone else acknowledge how I was feeling was ok made a big difference. (And if you hate it, you can always stop.)

Hi.   I’m going to give it a go.   Just need to find the right people.    Thank you