Hi
I found out 18 months ago my husband was having an affair, it came as a complete shock, I had no idea and it tore my world apart that the person I trusted most in the world had done this and risked a 34 year loving marriage for just sex on the side with someone who basically offered it on a plate, no strings, no affection, just to get attention and an ego boost (mutual of course) The affair was ended straight away but then 10 months later he was diagnosed with terminal cancer - I am still not coping well with the hurt and anger his betrayal caused although I have had counselling which didn't make me feel any better though it helped to talk to someone. My problem now is dealing with the feelings of resentment and upset/hurt/anger caring for him now he has cancer after what he did to me ? Sometimes I feel guilty and know I should be making the most of our time left together but it's so hard to feel loving towards him after what he did. I just wondered if there was another wife/husband on here that had experienced a similar situation ? Thanks for any views ?
