Hi my dad, 86 years old, was, a week ago, diagnosed with aggressive AML and given a prognosis of less than 8 weeks.He has moved in with myself and my husband as he was living on his own since my mum was also placed into end of life care. He wants to stay with us and does not want to go back to hospital or a hospice and has asked to be with us until the end. I am very scared and worried about this as I do not want to let him down. Does anyone have any advice as to things I should and should not do as I am at a total loss.
Thank you
Hi Looploo,
Sorry to hear about your dad but welcome to our community.
The uncertainty of this time can be very frightening and the "will we be able to cope" questions can be really challenging. It can be helpful to be in contact with a hospice as many do "hospice at home" services to support you as a family. You may be amazed at what you can do but always remember that whatever happens you will have done the best by your dad.
<<hugs>>
Steve
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