Hi I sound so selfish and feel guilty.My husband has been through so much the last 18 months after unsuccessful chemo and major surgery he had his bladder/prostate/lymph nodes removed.He is now been given a terminal diagnosis..We have no intimacy at all he won’t even sleep in my bed .We don’t kiss or hold hands.All I do is care for him and keep the house going and look after the family.How do I cope with this ?i want to feel sexy again and wanted I have talked to him and always make myself look nice.He just isn’t interested when he feels well enough all he does is drink.
any one else feel in a similar situation? I’m 43 and feel my love life should be at its peak well at least my body is telling me that.
many thanks xxx
Yes I found it, wish they had a better forum ‘engine’ and PM has been broken for a few days, luckily I am in the ha it of copying text before clicking send, been caught out too m at times losing a long typed message......best wishes
Linda You are my best memory, You are all of my best memories
It’s amazing how bad news puts everything into perspective and some things that seemed important, no longer are. My Wife’s oncologist just told my Wife the Chemo meds are not working and the cancer is worsening, worse news I could possibly hear. She was doing so so well until she had a fall recently and bashed her head bad. Words can’t describe how I feel, she is my soulmate, we married in 1972, divorced and remarried again in 2008....after meeting up again at a charity function, everything just clicked again, she is my Life my everything.....just need to pray and hope that together we can fight this as much as we possibly can.
Linda You are my best memory, You are all of my best memories
