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“Getting a cancer diagnosis is extremely stressful, and that brings a whole load of emotions, and lack of sleep certainly does not help. I think many of us have periods of insomnia. I experienced a long period of not sleeping. I could go off to sleep quite quickly, but after an hour I would find myself wide awake again, and would spend the rest of the night getting frustrated because I couldn't sleep."
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Hi scared78 I’m here!
There are so many different types of chemo for different cancers and all affect people differently so it might be a good idea to ask the question in the specific group for your dad’s cancer. That way you’ll be able to speak to others who have had the same chemo and find out how they got on with it.
Sarah xx
Have you it friends and family round you to help support you? It’s hard to watch someone else being ill and having all the worry for them, but you nend to look after yourself too.
Sarah xx
It's so complicated, i'm 1 of 4 children so we have each other but they are all very different to me and have their own families. i'm on my own, it's also not just the worry of my dad, its everything that effects, My mum has a mental health issue and the snowball effect that is causing is actually taking the centre stage.
Hard to explain without writing an essay of examples but my issues need to stay private right now
That’s a lot to deal with for you and cancer has a huge ripple effect on everyone around so it can have effects we don’t even think about before it happens. I can absolutely understand you want to keep things private, but if you do ever want to speak to someone you can phone the support line at any time between 8 and 8. You can be completely anonymous, and someone will listen. It might help you to share some of your feelings with a stranger who will never judge you.
Sarah xx
I love this story Steve thank you, and I hope it was an amazing holiday. It might sound odd but I am looking forward to seeing what signs I find from my mum as life goes on - she was a very creative lady!
Your words also made me appreciate having a bit of time with Mum, knowing it was the end. I can't imagine the pain of losing a loved one suddenly like you did. I suppose there's a small amount of comfort in him not having to suffer for a long time, but I also appreciate that's not always the right thing to say.
Anyway, thank you again for the story and the kind words. Take care of yourself x
Oh thank you for the update Chloe. I wanted to ask how it went but you know, just in case?
Anyway, it's starting to happen now, so fingers crossed all goes well for you. How long is the treatment scheduled for and will you be ok for transport? There's so much to do, it'll hopefully take your mind away from the dreaded nerves! But once you get into the swing, it should fall into a steady routine xx
Hugs, strength and courage my lovely xxx
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