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“Getting a cancer diagnosis is extremely stressful, and that brings a whole load of emotions, and lack of sleep certainly does not help. I think many of us have periods of insomnia. I experienced a long period of not sleeping. I could go off to sleep quite quickly, but after an hour I would find myself wide awake again, and would spend the rest of the night getting frustrated because I couldn't sleep."
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I only found out a couple of days ago that the huge melanoma that I had removed has come back,also lots of new moles that really itch. I've got too wait a couple of weeks to have an appointment for scans I can't sleep anyway because I suffer from fibromyalgia and trigeminel neuralgia which is a nerve that goes from the sinus to the eye into the mouth and then into the glands it is pure hell
I couldn't sleep before finding out that the huge melanoma that I had removed 8 years ago has come back, its don't believe in any God what is worrying me is telling my family. We are having a big family get together from Thursday and I can't ruin it, my dad is 79 years old and this will destroy him should I keep it a secret
Hi,
Last Monday I received my results from mastectomy and they were certainly not what I wanted to hear. The results are stage 3 and now I’m so paranoid that the cancer will come back as stage 4. It is keeping me up and I can’t sleep.
I want to be able to enjoy life but can’t see how I will ever feel happy again.
Unfortunately I suffer from constant chronic pain ive got fibromyalgia, also I smashed my hip to bits during a seizure 5 months ago also 20 years ago I had back surgery removed 3.5 discs. I seem to be very unlucky to much pain to sleep and yes the melanoma is scary. Thanks for your reply I hope that you are doing as well as possible
should I keep it a secret
I think that's a decision only you can make as you know your family. Maybe you could wait until you've had a scan and have more knowledge?
I chose to tell my family straight away as I was involved in grandchild care and that had to stop for a while.
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