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“Getting a cancer diagnosis is extremely stressful, and that brings a whole load of emotions, and lack of sleep certainly does not help. I think many of us have periods of insomnia. I experienced a long period of not sleeping. I could go off to sleep quite quickly, but after an hour I would find myself wide awake again, and would spend the rest of the night getting frustrated because I couldn't sleep."
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Hi Ray,I’ve only heard Mam in the north.We called mum,mother or mum till a boyfriend of my sisters started calling her mubbly.That name stuck with her in the last 30 or so years she was affectionately called mubbly or mubs.I’m known as Dodo to my sister who rarely calls me Jane xx
Hi again Derek, and many thanks for the info i also found that mam is the actual word for mother in Welsh. If you're owt like me, delving into the origins of words and phrases is a great pastime.
Well our little town was heaving with shoppers and it'll get moreso on the run-up to Christmas. Here's hoping your shopping trip is a success too xxx
Ray, my granny and grandad always addressed each other as mother and father in company, which I found a bit odd. When I worked in schools, I was always called 'miss' - ma'am wouldn't have gone down too well, as it sounds very 'old school'.
Hoping you're having a fine day fella xxx
Ma'am sounded old school to me as well when I left school in 1969 as a 6th former. Even when taught how to write formal letters, the Dear Sir or Dear Madam sounded positively Victorian. Very often nowadays, instead of a letter we get an email saying 'Hi Ray' or a 'Dear Ray' both signed off as Sincerely or Regards '-first name-.' Yours faithfully seems rare now. I suppose we've all become so used to the speed of modern communication that we soon feel we know people quite well, making extreme formality appear out of place, unless of course one is in the habit of writing to His Majesty .
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