Awake and up all night

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“Getting a cancer diagnosis is extremely stressful, and that brings a whole load of emotions, and lack of sleep certainly does not help. I think many of us have periods of insomnia. I experienced a long period of not sleeping. I could go off to sleep quite quickly, but after an hour I would find myself wide awake again, and would spend the rest of the night getting frustrated because I couldn't sleep."
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  • Evening Sophsea. From earlier posts I gather that you live by the sea on the South coast. In 1961 me, my mum and my younger brother had to find non-RAF accommodation because Dad had volunteered for a 12 months unaccompanied posting at RAF Gan in the Indian Ocean. Something to do with absence makes the heart grow fonder according to my mum's sister. Mum had a wonderful Uncle who was sub editor of the Portsmouth Evening News who lived in a large guest house owned by his partner in Brading Avenue, Southsea. There was a large spare room which became home for a few weeks before Mum found a nice terraced rental in Eastfield Road where we stayed for the remainder of the 12 months. I was only 12. The school was  within walking distance, as was the sea. A winter time activity practiced by local kids was to study the waves which were smashing against the sea wall, then run down one set of steps and up the next set before the wave consumed all. There were no casualties during my time there but I could not be persuaded to engage in such madness. In lunchtimes we often dug the pebbles against the sea wall in calmer weather to find coins that had dropped out of people's pockets. It funded a trip to the chipshop on alternate days. Memories Upside down! xxx

  • Nice to meet you too. 
    That sounds good, especially if it stays in place, while keeping you warm. A win win situation. 

    You are so welcome. Do you have a helpline that you can phone if you need it? xx

  • Evening Kez, and hugs gratefully received Hugging 

    Today has been better thanks hon, as yesterday I morphed into Hurricane Lunatic with a slight overspill this morning! Calmer waters now rule the waves...till the next thing crops up. I'm afraid unpleasant news brings out the monsters inside and they're all very angry and loud. Calming meditation might exorcise my temper if I had more time Joy OH's team got off lightly!

    Hopefully you're not a raging nut job Kez, and a peaceful night should be in order. Hugs and love Heart️ sweetheart xxx

  • Evening Ray Relaxed

    That year spent on the south coast must have been idyllic, apart from the absence of your dad. Familiarity can sometimes breed contempt, as I experienced yesterday  Triumph

    Anyway, I would definitely have done the wave challenge as I was a right thrill seeker in my misspent teenage years. I'm glad you bottled it Ray, else we might not have your genteel presence here.

    A toast Champagne glass xxx

  • Former Member
    Former Member

    Back in the room, after more difficulties today. Apologies for disappearing, I just needed to step off the planet for a bit and work through some of the non-health-related issues being dropped on me from a great height currently. Solved one, another two took its place. Still feeling quite ill and beaten into the ground although I slept for longer last night.

    Now I need to catch up, react and reply where I need to, albeit late.

  • Former Member
    Former Member in reply to RayMK

    I lived in Southsea when I first left home to take up my first job in Portsmouth dockyard, in 1975 or thereabouts. Those were the days! I miss the seaside.

  • Evening Gill.  I can't imagine the waves daring to give you as much as a wet foot.

    In my teens, the most daring thing me and my friend did was to climb the ladders to the look-out towers in the forested areas around RAF Bruggen, Germany. We progressively leapt from higher rungs of the ladder to see who could avoid injury from the highest position. 8 or 9ft was bearable. Impressive, considering that a few decades later I think twice about stepping off a thick carpet. No offence intended to the intelligence of the carpet.  xxx   

  • Former Member
    Former Member in reply to Kezdc16ad

    Thank you. Kissing heart

  • Shimmers, you've brought out my sympathetic side in spades. Here, have these Hugging Birthday Pill Pill Bouquet on me.

    Seriously hon, I hope you feel a lot better soon. I did know that certain creams/emolients can cause fire hazards if you get too close to heaters and such, so for crying out loud be careful!

    Still labouring with the new phone but I'll be back after TLC if anyone's still about. Oh, when OH was eye leaking at yesterday's appointment I asked just how long the waiting list for counselling was. "It's a long one, at least 5 months." I politely replied, through clenched teeth, that we've been waiting almost 6!!!!

    You take it easy Shims, and grab a torch next dog walk. Soothing hugs being sent post haste xxx

  • Good to see you back Gill Raised hands 

    Don't bust a gut replying as you've had a tough day. 

    Sending more hugs across the water xxx Hugging  Hugging