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“Getting a cancer diagnosis is extremely stressful, and that brings a whole load of emotions, and lack of sleep certainly does not help. I think many of us have periods of insomnia. I experienced a long period of not sleeping. I could go off to sleep quite quickly, but after an hour I would find myself wide awake again, and would spend the rest of the night getting frustrated because I couldn't sleep."
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Morning Geoff.
That sounds a lovely place to live, and near the sea too. Our dream location. Anyway, it's pretty cold here today in West Yorkshire - what's it like down there and can you see the sea? I'm obsessed with it - all three of our private group lives by the sea but we're stuck inland. Sobs.
Are you allowed to tell us your YouTube thingy or is it against the law?
Right, I'd better get cracking with the chores but hope you get the pesky pain under control.
Laters hon xxx
Good morning Gill.
Yea it's nice here. It's not the best seaside town, and in fact most people haven't heard of it. Next to us is Littlehampton which is more popular. All the beaches around here are shingle, so it's not like there's lovely sand or anything. It's still great though to be so close to the sea. In Winter you can see the sunset and sunrise from the beach, and I've filmed and photographed it lots of times. One of my photos of a sunset is hanging on the wall of my nearest hospital.
I can't see the sea from here but if I walk 1 minute, I can! It's 3 and a half minutes walk to get to the beach.
It's still quite warm here, 20C at the moment, but it's cloudy.
My Youtube channel - I was going to check if they'll let me post a link in these forums but I haven't looked yet. I'll check in a min. I don't see why not though. I'm a bit shy for people here to watch me, I'm kinda embarrassed about the state of me. That's just me, how I've always been.
Once you've done your chores Gill, pop over and do mine will you? See you soon.
Geoff.
Ok, I've checked the rules of the forum and they ask us not to post personal details or links to social media sites. My Youtube channel isn't really social media, but it would show lots about me. I don't care but the rules are the rules and I don't want to risk breaking them.
Once we have the private messaging back, I'll send a link to my Youtube channel to anyone who's interested.
Geoff.
Sorted then my friend, Jane's it is, just bringing a smile to her face will be worth it, as for biscuits my fav's are hob nobs but I think that might be partly because if they don't get eaten, they make a lovely cheesecake base. As for dinner tonight I always opt for gammon and occasionally sticky toffee pudding
, and Aphantasia is a big issue on top of the usual memory issues you can get with cancer treatment, but lately I've been getting an occasional image flashing in my head for less than a second, so maybe it's a good sign. Mine is acquired Aphantasia, but they couldn't find the trigger, and it isn't nice when you can't visualise memories, the complete darkness is tough to get used to, but you have to.
love Eddie and Sheila xx
Lol if it meant being able to be near the sea, I'd gladly do your chores. Well, some of them so let's not get carried away.
You must be proud, having one of your shots on show at the hospital and I'd love to see your work. My chap had RT at Jimmy's, in Leeds, a huge place and they've got a gallery of artwork, wonderful to look at whilst waiting for patient transport. Oh, and a grand piano with regular pianists playing an array of music genres. You know, I really miss it - six weeks of something no-one would wish for but we made the most of it and look back with great fondness. It seems odd ball but it was one of the better parts of the journey.
Ah well, back to chores and then back to reading, as OH has gone up for a snooze. Oh, and if it's allowed, don't be shy about being seen as none of us here bothers about looks, just the person behind them.
Hugs to you my friend xxx
Gill, I'll make a list of chores for you then. Teehee.
The photo in the hospital was from a competition I entered years ago, and I was a runner up. Maybe I'll come across as a bit big headed by this, but I'm not proud of it anymore (I used to be) because it's quite an old and poor photo! All sunset photos look great as sunsets are such wonderful things, but I've taken so many better photos since then. I guess I must have liked it a the time to have submitted it to the competition.
Oh I love the piano! I'm not surprised you miss that. I've learned how to play a little, but I didn't get very far. I do love the piano though, it's a magically instrument. I'm extremely passionate about music generally but decently played piano is on another level.
Thanks for what you wrote about seeing my Youtube channel Gill. It's mostly my looks I'm shy about, but the way I talk too. I think I sound mumbly, but I try to pronounce things better when recording a video. I'm just overall embarrassed about myself and I always worry what people will think of me and everything about me.
Aw well done Eddie and Jane deserves a big smile. Excellent!
When you mentioned gammon I drooled; we love it, with chips, and Hobnobs are so moorish it's goodbye pack if I get my mits on one. Dunked in tea or coffee, of course.
Oh that must be awful for you, not being able to conjure up memories or images in your mind; I'm not sure I'd cope with that. My head's permanently filled with noise due to tinnitus, and I can mainly ignore it, but doubt I'd manage a blank wall of nothing. Do you get images in dreams? I hope the brief flashes could herald the return of what most take for granted.
Anyroad, just look forward to devouring some mouthwatering chow later on. We had our 19th anniversary day-we-got-together in May but couldn't really celebrate as OH was off his food and still bogged down with fatigue. We'll wait for our 20th instead.
Lots of love to you and Sheila xxx
Hi Geoff CBT isn't acupuncture. It's an acceptance therapy to help you understand and focus on the things that matter to you most, and when you can do that thinking about pain doesn't occupy your thoughts so much, and as 80% of pain is psychological and not real, and knowing and most importantly believing this, your pain burden diminishes accordingly, ACT, works alongside this. Useful to know when pain relief is not an option.
Awww to live by the sea, you'll have a few of the guys envious, and that's fab your hospice is so close as well, I'm afraid I'm a total dinosaur with tech, and other than here and W....app have nothing to do with things like that, but when PMs return, it would be good to have a look at your postings, and I hope it won't be long before your ready to stretch your wings and get to those far off places soon.
Eddie
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