I am writing this with such emotional difficulties my 26 year old so of cancer on Monday 30th march the loss is more than I can bere a sadness I have never felt or imaginad before the loss and emptyness unbelievable I know must be the same for us all adults or child we all feel this pain how do we even think straight I feel such a loss how do we cope with this sadness and grief
Hello Slinky . we cope by taking 1 day at a time . Hopefully you have someone to support you ..family or friends . We all know this grief is far worse than we could ever have imagined. Of course we know there is going to be a deep sorrow and so much pain after losing a Loved one . But nobody tells us about the many other emotions that come along with everything else . And it is so very Overwhelming. It is really difficult to think straight. We are in shock. and our brains take a long time to process this significant loss. We suffer Sleep deprivation. Loss of appetite , exhaustion and some experience Panic attacks denial ,Anger and sometimes even jealousy. So don't worry if these emotions affect you ta different stages and some altogether . It helps to express your thoughts and feelings here .
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