Hello to you all, I read all the posts every day and often have a little cry at such heartfelt understanding of our loss. Whatever stage of grief we are at whether one day to one week to whenever, we miss our beloved, especially at this time of year. When everyone is planning happy family times at Christmas, we are left wondering what to do ? Here is my recipe for what I am going to do !
1. Have a lie in or even breakfast in bed. Warm, and with pussycat Missy .
2. Putting on something nice and colourful.Hair and some makeup.
3. Treat myself to lunch at the local Bistrot. Meeting a friend. Going to the Cemetery to talk to Barry.xxxxxxx
4. Time for watching old movies or music videos on YouTube.Some wine of course and chocolates .
5 Light the fire, if I haven't before. Cold here in the Dordogne !!! More mulled wine.
6. Prepare my stew, already cooked from the day before.
7. Don't know ! Already that might just be enough.
Take care everyone, wherever you are and whatever you do. Next year is coming and who knows ? We have got this far. Keep strong.
Love Fifinet. Xxxx hugs to everyone xxxxxx
I chose to spend the day alone, with my furry boys, for this reason. I didn’t want to spend it with the wrong person. I think that I made the right decision.
I spent much of the day in tears but at least I could cry freely at home. I didn’t have a Christmas dinner but I did get some nice food in, although felt guilty buying it as my husband wouldn’t be able to enjoy it.
I’m spending some time with my elderly mum and brother today. Not too much but I will get out and have some company today.
i hope that you have a peaceful day.
best wishes, Mel
Hello Vicky
I am very glad you had a nice time yesterday. That little grand daughter must be such a joy to have. I have no family, and the one sister I have isn't much help !!! She phoned yesterday, but it was an effort I think for her. Sad really. She has family and husband all living near her in Ayr, so she isn't alone like us.
Anyway, yesterday was fine for me and pussycat Missy. We both had treats and in bed by 10 30 !!
Today is another day. Shops are open in my little village, so will get out a bit. Cold but sunny.
Thinking of you and our dear forum friends at this time.
Love and hugs. Fiona xx
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