Hi, I lost my lovely partner on Monday. He was only 32 and had been fit and active up until a couple of weeks ago. When he did take ill we assumed it was just a stomach bug but within three days his stomach had swollen. He went into hospital and a few days later we were told he had a GIST a type of stomach cancer that had become infected and swollen. This was obviously very worrying but we were told about treatment plans to shrink and eventually remove the tumour but then the next day he had severe breathing problems and was put on a ventilator and me and his parents were told he was unlikely to recover, a few days later we had to make the decision to let him go.
i am trying to comfort myself with the fact he didn’t suffer for long and we had a very happy time together although it was only 3 and a half years but I’m struggling so much to imagine my life without him.
So very sad to hear your news
its really not fair is it, he was far too young, take things ever so slowly, give yourself extra time for everything. Above all be kind to yourself, it’s the most painful of journeys, we are all here to support you, don’t forget your GP is also there to help you.
take special care of you
Linda You are my best memory, You are all of my best memories
I am so sorry for your loss, what a shock tht must have been for you all
. l have no words to say to comfort you but my heart goes out to you.
