I’ve been managing

Hello

It must be so hard for you when your brother’s illness is bringing back all the memories of losing your husband. I hope you get to see him soon.

I lost my husband, Ian, only 6 weeks ago but like you, I find it hard to look at other elderly couples without thinking why was this future taken away from us. I am trying to stop myself doing this but it is how I feel and I should imagine, always will.

Life is cruel and so unfair. 

Thank you. I know exactly how you are feeling. You take care, the pain does ease

I can’t imagine how you must be feeling especially after the recent loss of your husband.  When my husband got his terminal diagnosis a year ago the consultant wouldn’t give a time frame.  She just said you won’t grow old together and that was so distressing.  Sadly she was right and he lost his brave fight 4 months ago at 53 years old.  I had my own cancer fight and had curative surgery but it’s always there and I don’t have my husband for support.  Life is just too cruel and it always seems to happen to good people. Thinking of you hms1956 xx