I feel lost our marriage wasn’t in a good place when my husband was diagnosed I went through the support process because I loved him beyond all doubt but now I wish we had more time to resolve things around our 33 years relationship at the end. I feel things were left unsaid and I am desolate that this is left unresolved I just need to know that I was important to him .
I am sorry you feel this way it must be very painful lose your someone and to have left your relationship unresolved like this, I don’t have any experience in this but can only imagine that after 33 years and supporting him despite your differences that you were probably the most important thing in the world to him, if someone did that for me I would have no doubts that they loved and cherished me. I hope you find some peace maybe speak to someone with Moore professional advice around bereavement they may be able to help more.
Vicki
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