Swinging emotions

Hi Tivvy

Ye been there, it is part of the grieving  process, i was angry, i cursed him, i even hated him for leaving.

Now i just love him, it has been 18months now, and it is getting slightly easier,

So you are not atone.

Tak Care xx

Thank you Ellie. That is very encouraging to hear. I am so pleased that you have found just the love now.  I hate the angry feelings and I cannot wait for them to go. It is almost 4 months since my husband died so I am still fairly early in this journey. 

Today I just feel honoured to have had him in my life, but I know I will circle all round the feelings again, and again. 

Viv

xx

Hi Tivvy

 It does take time, each day can be so different, you never no what the day might bring.

I could not listen to the music we both liked, without crying, now i play it and sing at the top of my voice, sound like a cat really.

I have to say i smile a lot when playing them, as have special memories.

Take Care Ellie xx

Thank you Ellie so much. It is just such a roller coaster. I cannot completely through a day without one or other emotion creeping in at some point. 

Viv

xx

Hi tivvy 

my husband died at the end of dec my emotionals have been all over the place I have been very cross that he left me angry sad every emotion possible I am learning to just go with the emotions and saying it’s ok to feel them learning to take some care for me x this is helping 

big hugs to you xx