Dreading husband’s funeral in two weeks’ time

Hi duty 

I am sorry for your loss this is a lovely group who all understand I spoke about my hubby at the funeral I did cry but that was ok took my time it was ot easy but I did have a back up plan for someone to step in this took the pressure off I just had it in my head I was just talking to my hubby I don’t even remember seeing anyone else there x just do what is right for you on the day xx big hugs Sarah x

I’m sorry for your loss. I was worried I wouldn’t cope delivering my eulogy but I really wanted to do it and did it yesterday. The funeral director told me to take my time and take deep breaths which I did. If you have to pause, do. I had back up prepared but I did do it because I was desperate to meet that last challenge and do what he would have wanted. But, if it’s too much you can still write the words but have someone you trust deliver them. There isn’t a right or wrong thing to do. Be kind and fair to yourself x