Scared

FormerMember
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Hi this is my first post. I’m sitting beside my wife of 43 years she has melanoma which spread to her brain I don’t think that she will last the next 48 hours. I am so scared about living without her,we did everything together. I have read a lot of posts here and everyone is so heartbreaking my hart goes out to all of you . But how do you cope with coming back to an empty house,driving the car with nobody besides you and many many more things. I feel guilty writing this as I sit here with my Winnie but can’t bear the thought of losing her   Sorry I am rambling now. Virtual hugs to all of you. 

  • Hi Winmick,

    Try not to worry about the future 're empty house/car drive home for now. We are here now and in the future. You are not alone. 

    I understand the fear but for now try to be in the present.  I appreciate it is not a nice place to be. Your wife is still with you, hold her hand, tell her how much you love her and talk to her. 

    I found it comforting to chat about the good times, cry, play music and what felt like was rambling at the time; my way of letting my husband know I was with him until the end.

    No need to apologise. Sending you a big virtual hug back too...

    With lots of love,

    Dutsie x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    It's shit to be where you are and it don't get better. 

    Unleash your slf on this forum and tell every one that life sucks. 

    Nobody can help you but we all understand

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    My darling wife passed away at 6 this morning. 

  • So sorry for the sad news.  

    Look to the moon.
    Can't imagine any future without my soulmate
  • I am sorry to hear of your sad news this morning.

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    So so sorry, I feel sad for you.

    June xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    So sorry to hear your sad news,This is a group none of us want to be in. I’m ten months in now,it is so hard,I hope you have plenty of support.,Val x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Thank you all very much for your support. My hart goes out to all of you. I am just going round in a daze cleaning the house and keeping busy. I just can’t imagine what lies ahead. Mike. 

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    So sorry to hear your sad news

    I have found this site gives me comfort that neither friends nor relatives can give

    so keep in touch

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    so sorry for your loss

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