Our mum died 5 weeks ago due to kidney cancer. My sister and mum lived together - always had - in rented accommodation. The last ten years my sister although working became a carer for my mum. After my mums death, my sister can't afford to stay on in the house and doesn't want to as its got too many memories.
I've offered to pay her rent for two years whilst she gets sorted but she's refused saying she doesn't want my help. My mum and dad were divorced, but my dad has offered for my sister to live with him. They went away together last week and argued the whole time. She says she can't to it. She also says she thibking of giving up her job.
I don't know how to help her as well as dealing with my own grief. I've offered counselling to which she's said no to, she's distanced herself from her friends and any advice I offer sends her into a rage. Any advice is greatly appreciated. I'm worried she is spiralling.
