Things happening so fast

FormerMember
FormerMember
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Lost my Brother today, one of the nurses at the hospice called me & my brothers partner into a chapel less than an hour after he passed to ask about funeral arrangements and death certificate. I lost my Mum at the same hospice 20 years ago and don't remember having to do this.

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I’m so sorry for your loss. How horrible to be presented with questions about funeral arrangements so soon after your brother’s passing on top of everything else. I hope you have people around to support you through this time. This is a very friendly group here too, if you need to talk. Please take care of yourself x

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    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Hi Hope, thanks for the kind words. Unfortunately I'm on my own. I went to arrange the Death Cert & make the funeral arrangements with my Brothers partner & Sister as that's what they wanted , but after that all they were interested in talking about was dealing with his house and money, which I feel is too soon as he only passed away yesterday .