struggling

  • bac again

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    still realy upset tht mum hasnt been offered chemo . my older brother mark and his wife came down from luton sat to see us and mum he his very good at sorting things out im not. im too emotional. bless havent  seen him for awhile HE has spoken to a macmillan nurse he his friends with in luton and gave us some help thnk because i just felt i was sinking and that mum realise on us . he is going to speak to mums nurse here…

  • no treatment plan been given

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    is any one else in this position.  two days on and im still fighting with my emotions around no treatment given. I realy thought every one is given chamo but no, none to my mum . just go home mum and die thats how it .feels. sorry guys i realy do try and feel positive but i never thought they wouldnt help her.  today ALL the family got together it was brill love you guys with all my heart mum we all love you, foreever i…

  • how long some-one out there nows plese tell me111111111111

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    MUMS T3 LUNG CANCER WILL not be treated,she has no side effects yet. the cancer is very large but not bothering her . some one out there knows please tell me how long we could have with her the doctor hasnt even told us what stage its at we were told to just go home yeh im rely angry as they r not helping her ,love my mum .i rang macmillan nurse and she hasnt got bac to me yet bloody cheek some one must have anidea if…

  • crap day no treatment

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    mums plan has nothing written on it . perhaps she never paid enough nhs tax . absolutely gutted . treatment plan joke!!!!!!!!!! what they have said she has a very large tumor in her right upper llung which isnt bothering her and that she dosent  do her own shoppingso chamoe isnt worth it any way the drs said it might only give her an extra 3 monthh or kill her. hey i wanted to say this is my mum .ering her at the moment…

  • today is the day wow

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    This afternoon, mum and i r off to see her oncologist to get her treatment plan. i realy hope they offer her some kind of treatment.  any thing, just so we have hope as im not ready yet for her to go . Been a long couple of weeks waiting for today to arrive , feel, quite calm at the moment but its only 2am another 13 hrs and wow she will get some help. bIG FINGERS CROSSED any way speak later as its only 2am xxxxx