As I've said elsewhere, I was told May 2007 that I had just 3-4 months to live. If I was very strong, I might survive six months. We told my partner's sister, but, at her request, did not tell their mother. Shortly afterwards, just as we were about to go away for the weekend with his sister, she got very shirty with me and finally said we couldn't go, and it came out that their mother had some health problems - in fact…