Life can be cruel.

It's been a while since I last posted but there is a reason for this. It has been a struggle.......

Since katie had her operation to debulk her bowel and remove the cysts on her overies she has struggled to settle down. She has been left with a Stoma and has struggled to come to terms with it, as have I. She has been in pain and discomfort and has had horrendous insomnia. I have asked her to go counselling do deal…

So it has been a while since I posted, that is because my Wife was sent home from the hospital and with Christmas and work I have not had a spare minute. A lot to catch up on.

I am going to refer to my wife as Katie(her pets name). There is a reason for this, as I dont want people who read this to put two and two together, this is a personal thing for me to vent and sometimes hopefully inspire.

Since I last posted a…

So it is now my Wife's third week in hospital recovering from her operation. I am sitting by her bed waiting for her to come up from having her Port-A-Cath inserted. She is still in some pain and her Bowel still is not working. I haven't seen her today as between work and everything else it is difficult to be here all of the time. If I had a choice I would move in. I miss her terribly. That's the thing you notice most…

I want to write this blog firstly to get things of my chest and secondly to share our story as I think it will inspire others. I think I should start at the beginning. I am married to the most amazing women. I met her nearly seventeen years ago and we have been happily married for 5 1/2 years. She has suffered from Cystic Fibrosis since she was diagnosed at the age of 3. Back in 2008 she became more and more ill and…