Grief

  • Part 2 continued – kindness

    FormerMember
    FormerMember

    One thing I realised when I read my blogs back is how I did not recognise the overwhelming support I have had from friends, family and people I didn’t even know that well.

    Support has come not just from those closest to me but a random colleague who has stopped me and said I heard what happened, I am so sorry and asked me how I am, offered support and said that they really meant it, they weren’t just saying it…

  • Part 2 - Opinions and memory loss

    FormerMember
    FormerMember

    An apology in advance as this is a bit of a rant. It would help to know if anyone else is experiencing this or anything similar.

    I am experiencing a lot of opinions from colleagues and some friends about grief.

    “I don’t know how you do it (in relation to me working, going out, speaking to people, leaving the house) if I was you I would never go to work/leave the house again.”

    “How are you not more…

  • Part 1

    FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I want this blog to be about loss and the different ways people grieve.

    To start the story – I am a young (ish) person who has recently lost my mum to cancer, only a few short years after the loss of my dad also to cancer. What has surprised me the most is the different ways I am grieving for them both and the questions I ask myself about whether that is normal or not? And how much should I cry? Or feel angry? Or guilt…