AJ's blog

  • He is gone

    FormerMember
    FormerMember
    My father passed away this morning, peacefully, he never regained consciousness. I will post again when I feel more able.
  • Dad is unconscious

    FormerMember
    FormerMember
    On Monday morning I found Dad unconscious on his bed and in a bad way. Its a scene I will never forget. I called for an ambulance and we rushed him to hospital with the whole flashing lights and sirens going. He was in Resusitation for an hour before anyone would tell me what was going on. They believe he suffered a fall, either before or during a Ischemic Stroke. I did not see him over the weekend and boy do I feel…
  • Hospital

    FormerMember
    FormerMember
    Last night my Dad became quite ill, vomitting and lots of pain. My sister took him to the NHS walk in centre where they tested him for urine infection, it showed keytones meaning dehydration. The Dr there said that there were no signs of infection but because of the amount of pain he was in she suggested taking him up to the A&E department. He was admitted to a day case ward and stayed there all night, seeing a Dr…
  • Having a hard time accepting....

    FormerMember
    FormerMember
    ......that Dad will not change his drinking habit 'just because' he has cancer. Am I being selfish for wanting him to be sober when I visit him with my 5 and 8 yrs old kids. He has diabetes too and that doesnt even make him slow down on the hooch.
  • No more chemo, what now?

    FormerMember
    FormerMember
    We went with dad to chemo clinic today, the Doctor has suggested dad stop the chemo, dad has agreed. I am not totally sure of the reasons why, resistance was mentioned and thats fine if I was 100% that was the reason. Last week we went and Dad had been having issues with his memory and some pains down in the groin area. We spoke about this with the Dr and Dad confessed that he drink 4 Pints of beer a day. I of course…