Hi ladies,
Had my pre op earlier ready for op next Tuesday - all fine and good to go
Was given 2x enemas to use the day before surgery is this usual?
Also told I was booked in for 2 nights but nurse said that's the norm, its to ensure my bed is saved in case of any unforeseen issues??
I have a phone appointment on Thursday with my surgeon and hope they will talk me through the expected procedure in more detail and how they expect it to go - on my clinical letter it says Robot Assisted full hysterectomy with tubes & ovaries
Any tips on how to keep calm prior and what to take in with me.
Thanks,
Karen
Hi Karen, well done for having had your pre op assessment. The enemas thing varies from hospital to hospital. Mine (Southampton) didn’t routinely require enemas pre op, just left it to us to make sure we’d had a bowel movement the day before. My op was on a Saturday so on the Friday I had my main meal at lunchtime, and then just fruit and yogurt in the evening, meaning I had a poo that evening. I have no idea for how long I was booked in for - again, that must just be a hospital policy for yours.
My top tips for packing are: your own pillow, extra long charging lead for iPad/iPhone, squash (to add to the water jug they give you), sweets to suck post op in case throat is dry, and snacks in case you don’t fancy the evening meal. I took in Quavers, Soreen mini malt loaf bars and my overnight oats mix (I just added water on the ward and kept it in a screw top Tupperware overnight).
Thank you MarmiteFan59
I will make sure to take my long charger cable and snacks, I love soreen so will pick some up
I have bought a hysterectomy cushion so taking that in with me to hold against my tummy when moving about
Just want it over now, it's been a long anxiety inducing 5 months
Hi Kazaroo60
I didn't have an enema, I suppose each surgeon has their preferences.
Suggestions have been made about what to take and I would add taking some change in case you want anything from the trolley shop (if there is one) and loose, cool bed clothing (it was flaming hot in the room I was in). I had a 2 night stay but I had a TV in the room and the Olympics was on which helped to keep me occupied at the time but I had taken my tablet to watch catch up if I wanted and I had little video calls with my granddaughter.
Obviously some loose clothing to travel home in and I took flip flops so no struggling to get shoes on.
H
Hi Sbird
Yes thought about a bit of change as I know they do have a trolley that goes round, I am on Slimming World currently but if I feel the need for chocolate post op I am so going to have it
I have 2 lovely loose fitting nighties to take in and a long cotton dressing gown, didn't want to take in my old winter one as know the wards get so hot - I jhave a friend who has had bowel cancer surgery and visiting her the wards were unbearably hot sometimes
Hi Karen, I have never heard of a hysterectomy cushion and am unsure why one might be needed, especially with a laparoscopic op. But might be handy on the way home from hospital between you and the seatbelt. But, if your mobility is generally good, there’s every reason that you can be taking short gentle walks very soon post op! I walked the ward corridors the morning after my op, and went for a short gentle walk near my house as soon as I got home, My husband just brought a small pillow for that but I didn’t need it. If you’re worried about post op pain, as soon as the catheter was out (6am the day after) I didn’t need any pain relief at all. My tummy felt slightly “pulled muscles” stretched but wasn’t painful. I took two paracetamol at bedtime for the first two nights just in case, but that was it. And I’m not particularly good with pain but this really didn’t hurt. When I had my first poo post op I had a slight “urgency” pain just before but that went when I’d been. I hear you that you’re anxious, and I was too - but the likelihood is that your recovery will be far easier than you’re imagining.
My hysterectomy cushion is just a small shaped cushion that I can put a hot or cold pack into
It is mainly though to have on my lap to protect my tummy from my very affectionate Cockapoo and my elderly cat both of whom have no lap etiquette and will put paws in places they shouldn't : )
Pain wise I am not too afraid as have suffered with pelvic pain for years ever since peri menopause so hoping to lose all that once fibroids are removed with my womb
I guess I am just anxious about the unknown but will put myself in the surgery teams hand next week and look ahead to a pain free future
All the positive stories I have read on here re op day really help and I will happily add mine to the forum once I am up to it next week
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