I joined your wonderful group today and already feel better.
I’m bex, I’m 55, almost post meno and retired a few years ago after 30 years nursing and midwifery.... I rectify took a part time job as a funeral arranger as retirement and lock down was making me a tad huffy! I had a tinsy pink smudge and what I thought may have been thrush as I was back in tight knickers and trousers. My cervical smear was clear 8 weeks ago.. then I decided to have a period.. what the heck.. apologies but I’ve realised graphic is good here. I’ve no symptoms or anything untoward expect the bleed.. I’m not overweight.. much.. a few pounds and quite simply can’t loose weight .. which I almost done reassuring. I’m outwardly calm and inwardly not quite so. I’ve been on HRT 5 years and if I didn’t have it I think I would be on holiday with her majesty but my doc has said don’t stop it. I’m in the fast track system which is utterly brilliant. I’m not sure what to expect... and I just wanted to say a huge thank you for letting me write here and for any snippets that may help.. thank you so much xx
Hi Bex and welcome to the forum. Obviously when you are post menopausal and experience any kind of bleeding it is regarded as unusual and needs to be investigated, as you obviously know. It may be nothing serious, but needs to be checked as soon as possible.
I was 69 and was experiencing very vague symptoms, bit of a discharge with faint traces of blood. I was put on the fast track and so was seen within 2 weeks. I had a trans vaginal scan and they did a biopsy at the same appointment. I thought I had a polyp, as I’d had them before, and they thought they could see it on the scan. I had to wait two weeks or so for the biopsy results, which came back saying there were cancer cells present, which was the last thing I was expecting. I was sent immediately for a chest x-Ray, then the Multi Disciplinary Team met to discuss my results and treatment and within 10 days I saw my consultant who explained the surgery to me, and about a week later I had a hysterectomy with removal of ovaries and Fallopian tubes. It was keyhole surgery, I was in hospital for two nights and I recovered very quickly, altho I did take it very easy. I might add I too am a few pounds overweight, but otherwise I am fit and healthy and active.
I know many ladies on the forum had more scans than I did before their ops. it seems to depend on where you live! After the op there are two or three excruciating weeks waiting for the histology results. Mine turned out to be Grade 1 Stage 1b, so my consultant recommended three sessions of brachytherapy to reduce my chances of recurrence from 15% to about 8%. However he said not all ladies choose to have it, it is a belt and braces measure. I agonised for a while then decided to go for it. It is usually done within a timeframe of about 12 weeks after the hysterectomy. I am now six months on and doing well.
Basically everything happens quickly, which is really good, cos if there is something nasty you want it out ASAP. So fingers crossed for you that you won’t need to be a member of this forum! But there is usually someone around to offer support, advice etc. It’s an anxious wait till you know what you have to deal with, and sometimes we think we are coping, then realise that we aren’t! Wishing you the best of luck,
Viv
Hi and welcome to our little corner of the Online Community. Here you'll find a lovely group of supportive ladies who have all been exactly where you are now. A possibility of cancer diagnosis brings all sorts of stress and fears and if anyone can hold your hand and reassure you we will. We're all at the start, in the middle or the end of what can only be described as a roller-coaster ride. The ride no-one wants to get on.
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Thank you so much.. I’m indebted to everyone already and taking their time to read me xx
Hi Bexx,
Sorry you find yourself here. I was 72, so well past menopause, when I had a pinkish blob, a bit like a show before giving birth. I thought I had caught myself somehow, but then 3 weeks later there was a streak of blood. I was at the doctors the next day!! I kind of knew what was wrong. In my 20's I'd had to have the neck of my womb cauterized which culminated in me losing two pregnancies, then having to have 2 babies stitched into the womb.I nearly lost my first child as well. I'd spent many years watching for unexplained bleeds, so was not surprised something else had gone wrong with it!! Quite frankly, I was glad to be rid of it!!!
I found my stay in hospital (2 days) quite interesting. Things had changed a lot since my previous stays in hospital. I had a morphine drip directly after my operation, which was keyhole. So much better than when I had tonsils out in my 20's. They had a machine that told them if you had emptied your bladder sufficiently. I hadn't, so I was in for 2 days. I couldn't feel a thing 'down there', let alone needing to wee! A nurse gave me a tip of lifting one leg up with your arms, then the other to squeeze urine out of you!! It worked as they let me home on Day2.
All this was nearly 4 years ago now. And, its surprising how many women need a hysterectomy for one reason or another once you get talking. All the best. xxx
Thank you so much for the reassurance and sharing with me.. I can’t tell you how much I appreciate it. Xx thank you
Hi Viv
thank you so much... I feel confident that with the encouragement I have had already I can do this..I have my fingers tightly crossed that it will be an endometrial shedding. Huge thanks for uour time xx
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