I am 81 and was diagnosed with serous cell endometrium cancer in September. There was some discussion about whether I was Stage 3 or 4. My surgeon who did the lap/rob surgery found a lesion on my lung and there was cancer in one of my lymphs. Oncologist thinks its 4 because she says in the lung is where cancer cells usually migrate to. She says we can't know for sure w/o a biopsy that's not in the cards for now. I have had internal/external ultra sound, CT scan, PET scan and the ususual hysterectomy. To bring readers up to date. I then had an Echocardiogram probably due to my age. I was cleared for chemo.
Yesterday, I had my first chemo session. The fact that this treatment was on my mind for weeks, kept me up nights. Additionally, having it at all was something I thought about a lot. I thought that perhaps the chemo is not going to do its job and help much. My surgeon told me, it was his opinion the treatment would be 40% successful. 60% chance it would return and probably would be vaginal. So, it was a tough call for me.
Anyhow, to talk about yesterday. Don't laugh, but it was a wonderful experience overall. I had a lovely private suite with all the amenities, My team was attentive and did everything to ease my fears. Many of them treated my spouse and remember him with fondness and with stories we chuckled about. They said he was a wonderful patient and they were sure he was looking down on me. (made me tear up).
Treatment went smoothly My surgeon added herceptin. The Taxol took 3 hours. I was loaded up before the procedure with drugs via IV for anti-nausea and other stuff.
Once the treatment started, I fell asleep probably, a more fitful sleep than I had in weeks. Hospital recommended I bring food and something to drink because I would be there for 6 hrs. I was.
The nurse told me if I was going to have issues with the treatment, it would be within a few minutes of Taxol administration. I had no reaction. After it was all over, I felt a bit lightheaded. The nurse said I did incredibly well and "didn't even turn pink". I gave her a big hug for that one.
This morning, I woke up pretty well rested because I only woke up once rather than two or three times. I took my Dexamethasone prescribed for the next three mornings. My only symptom so far was "dry mouth". So, I thought I'd' relay my experience. The next session in 21 days will be somewhat shorter. It was not what I expected. I hope the end result will be as positive.
Hi Gwen
Am glad that it went well yesterday. I found the first one the worst as you don't really know what to expect.
I also slept on and off most of my first chemo. I think it was partly the build up to it but also the piriton.
I hope that you continue to feel ok on it but do not be afraid to give your hospital 24 hour number a call if you do get any side effects that trouble you. They can often give you something to help.
Jane
Days 2,3&4 were debilitating. Fatigue was off the charts; woke up with a bright red face and extreme dry mouth. Then there were the flu like symptoms. Nurse advised this might happen . Hot tub and shower helped. Constipation was evident. Got that resolved and then the bout of diarrhea. I contacted the team and discussed all.
I felt so weak. But, was better as the week moved on. My next session is New Years Eve. I hope this next session is a little easier on me. At my age, I don't know how this old bod is going to continue to handle the stresses put upon it or how much more I am willing to endure.
Hi Grace
hope you are doing OKish today.
i did radiotherapy before my chemo, and really didn’t want to do the chemo. After every chemo session, I said I can’t do another one, but somehow I got through it! So understand where you are coming from. I found the second one was easier than first, as you know what to expect, and tended to follow the same pattern by day each time.
i felt more fatigue with last two, but then I also had the motivation that I was getting towards the end.
Wishing you all the best. Xx
I am managing a bit better. Still fatigued but not as weak.
I do think part my difficulty with aftermath of 1st session was the lack of prep for the immediate days after. This time meals will be made in advance. Groceries complete with new and fresh fruits and veggies, yogurt, cottage cheese, ginger ale and crackers for what ails the tummy/bowels.
Hair is like straw and disappearing and to my mind is a great indignity, so I say buck up buttercup, we can do this(all the while my fingers are crossed) Next session New Years Eve. How ironic is that. I do live alone, except for Charlotte the Scottie , my best bud. She climbs on my lap when I'm feeling poorly She just knows...
I thank you for encouragement to move on.
you are welcome. Yep, I live alone, so can understand that as well. I have a cat that comes and curls up on me which is nice. Losing the hair wasn’t great for me, and even though it is growing back, I still have an issue with it, as I had mid length hair.
Main reason for getting back to you though 1) for my first round I continued taking anti nausea tablets after day 3 as they said better to take them before you feel sick. Around day 10 I was fed up with stomach issues, phoned the hospital and they said it could be the anti sickness tablets. I stopped taking and stomach issues resolved. For next rounds I only took for first 2.5 days and felt hugely better. 2) Jane kindly suggested lemon sweets to suck, and I found this a huge help, also liked it when by around day 9 I realised I hadn’t had any that day, as grotty taste had gone.
Just thought I would mention in case this helps you.
Thank you for that. I am headed to treatment #3 next week. I'm feeling ok, but have had additional symptoms arise. I wasn't aware my taste would be affected by treatment. Most things taste like preservatives. Sometimes I feel like a dish rag soaked in swimming pool chemicals. Coffee tastes good, orange juice, most fruits. It's hit and miss. Bowel upsets are hit and miss, but I manage.
I then began having the tingly thing in the fingers of my right hand. All this stuff, side effects. My hair is now gone. It was coming out by the handfuls, so I had my neighbor trim it to a very fashionable tennis ball length.
My next issue will be the port the team wants to install. I will object. You see, I don't sleep well. I am restless in sleep, side to back to stomach and over and over and over all night. The thing sticking out of my chest is not going to help. There is no problem with my veins. I chuckle to think the only place I get solid sleep is during treatment with wonderful drug cocktails I get prior to the cancer stuff. I get 4-5 hours of counting my lovely sheep.
I am not complaining, BTW. This is as accurate a diary of what has happened to me so far. I'm keeping up with ADL's and giving my best shot at a normal life, but I do tire easily. Thanks for your post and hugs. I can use every one of them. xxxooo
Please mention the tingly feeling in your hand when you see your oncologist. My Paclitaxel was reduced for third treatment due to this. I managed without a port, which I was pleased about, as I too am a restless sleeper, and also have a cat that gets onto bed! I had no problems with cannulas each time, they just swapped from one arm to the other each time, and I had some above the wrist so they weren’t going into same veins. Good luck x
Hi Grace
I had been wondering how you were getting on.
Good luck with next weeks treatment.
Taste is often unfortunately affected. I found lemon sweets helpful. If your mouth is also sore they can give you a lubricating mouth wash that does help. I found a lot of things tasted like they were going off or just bland and unpleasant. One thing to think of if that part of the pleasure tasting and enjoying food is the smell and with chemo- it can also affect smell and you may find you have a runny nose as the hairs inside normally come out. I found sharp and lemony/citrus tastes were more palatable. I did go off many foods that I normally enjoy. The main thing I was told was to continue to eat, whatever you fancy and keep the fluids up.
Bowel effects are normal too. Sometimes constipation, often diarrhoea was my experience. Some of it is not only due to the chemo drugs but also the other medication they give you- some anti sickness medications themselves cause constipation. (Ondansetron in particular)
I can understand your concern about the port. I did not want one as I felt I wanted everything taken out before I went home. I was told that as long as my veins coped then I wouldn't have to. Although they did deteriorate by the last couple of sessions, the nurses I had were very skilled at inserting cannulas and I was able to continue. Blood tests took a bit longer for the last cycle also. But they did manage.
The tingling feeling is something you need to mention to your CNS/or consultant when you have your review before the next cycle. It can be a sign of some neuropathy and at they may need to look at and adjust the dose of paclitaxel. They did this for me.
Feeling really tired is normal also. Your body is going through a lot of aggressive treatment at the moment. It can and does get better. So hang in there.
Jane
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