Late post op haematoma and poor support from Gynae CNS

I had a hysterectomy 12 weeks ago for stage 1A grade 1A . Other than a week at home with a catheter my recovery has been straightforward . Three weeks ago the weekend after I started a phased return to work as a hospital pharmacist I started to experience the symptoms of a UTI -urinary tract infection. Two sets of antibiotics bring me to New Year’s Eve with severe left sided pain  and pelvic pain . The GP thought I might have a kidney stone but the specimen showed blood and white cells so started me again on broad spectrum antibiotics.

On New Year’s Day I had a vaginal bleed through my clothes . I am a hospital pharmacist working in the hospital where I had the op so I emailed the gynae cancer nurse

A gynae nurse called me back on 02/01  and was not that sympathetic. She did say that I needed to contact GATU -gynae acute treatment unit . They weren’t concerned after a call saying that I was 11 weeks so likely to be nothing. 
it seemed to settle but started to ooze on 03/01 so left work taking a half day leave .Continued with vulval pain and ooze Sat and Sunday 4th and 5th

i went home and had to call them as I had a major bleed . I was scared that an ambulance wouldn’t get to me in time . My haemoglobin stayed up so not a total disaster . They admitted me . On Monday I had 2 scans which  showed a 4.5cm probable collection of blood -haematoma . Three consultants were 95% sure this was just a collection in the vault but the radiologist wanted to do an MRI just to be sure nothing sinister . I was discharged Monday pm and my surgeon said she would call me . No sight or call from the gynae specialist nurses . 
I went back last night and had the MRI 

The radiographers said to me that the radiologist would have this reviewed  today . No call today I did email the surgeons secretary and she said she would leave a message for the surgeon. She said to email the gynae nurses . I have done this .but they have been no support at all .

If they call you they talk at you . They are really there to communicate with patients to save medical staff time . They talked at me  They did not tell me the pathway. I had to work that out myself . The only thing they said on the first call  “ You are only at the start of your cancer journey “ What does that even mean . Any information came from social media . They don’t use open questions. 
I had an emergency admission this weekend and I have not heard from them. I was due an end of treatment meeting this month so they sent me the documents . Included was instructions for Kegel exercises 3 months too late . 

I will feed all this back . I just needed to get it off my chest 
if you got here I am very grateful