After appointment with my surgeon on Friday my full hysterectomy is now scheduled for next Tuesday. He asked for permission to take some nodes. Lymph nodes I assume in order to test. As I was on my own I zoned out some. A friend did come with me though she had a fall in the parking lot and as you can imagine that was quite a panic. Some surgeons were having coffee and were alerted so she had help. Paramedics and taken into Triage. Before my appointment I was able to contact her husband so he came. Sadly her shoulder is broken and so she’s facing a journey of her own.
I have two appointments this week for pre-op tests and to go through the surgery and recovery etc. with the nurses.
I am a bit nervous about the surgery as evidenced by anxiety dreams. More about the aftermath of general anaesthetic, confusion, constipation, bedpans and pain. The surgery is going to be robot assisted.
sorry to ramble. It’s been a rough weekend with concern about my friend’s accident and the upcoming surgery.
I had mine 4 weeks ago they weren't able to remove the affected lymph nodes however post op I felt ok- pain management supplied was quite good - You'll be up and showering the next day with a little bit of help . The worst things from my point if view- painful wind and indegestion and constantly interrupted sleep (hospital wards are very noisy!)
Hi Muse 3 weeks post op for me, robot assisted I was so worried before the op and the recovery I needn’t have been, just a little out of it for 24 hours, my surgery was total hysterectomy I was meant to be a day case home in the evening but my surgeon wanted to keep me in for an extra night, I developed a UTI at home but antibiotics cleared it up, no real pain and didn’t have to take any pain relief after the first week I had stool softeners to take home with me which worked after 3 days and no problems since, I noticed you have cats so do I, I couldn’t feed him because I couldn’t bend to the floor to put his food down so my daughter did that, I’ve only just started feeding him myself after 3 weeks by kneeling, they gave me lots of guidance on what to do and what not, I followed it to the letter, and now I have my results tomorrow…. Terrified…. Good luck with your operation xx
Hi Muse, so sorry about your friend’s accident and I hope she’s doing okay. I feel for you with your apprehension about the op aftermath but try to remember that it may be better than you’re fearing. I did have some disorientation post op which wasn’t nice at all. My catheter was left in after my op - thankfully removed at 6am the following morning! As soon as it was out I was out of my bed and moving around. I needed pain relief while I had the catheter in but as soon as it was out, I was pain free and needed no further pain meds, though when I went home I took paracetamol at night for the first 2 nights just in case. All I had was a feeling of slightly pulled muscles either side of my tummy but it wasn’t painful. I had no trapped wind and had no need of the peppermint tea. I didn’t have any indigestion but my appetite was low, which wasn’t a bad thing as it meant I was easily able to eat a light diet while my system recovered without feeling hungry. Mine was laparoscopic not robotic and I stayed just one night - we were allowed to go home once we’d had three visits to the loo with clear urine (I was given a cardboard thing to put in the toilet bowl to collect the wee). I think sometimes robotic can mean staying an extra night but maybe not always, Hope you feel a bit more settled about it soon. What time Tuesday do you have to go in?
Cheers it seems like everyone has a different experience with some similarities. Our bodies do seem to bounce back quickly. I have a codeine-paracetamol combo for my arthritis
no intake time yet but expect it will be morning. Should learn tomorrow
Just to say that I personally had no problem gently bending from the day after my op and was able to feed my dog, pick up my slippers etc. I was however careful and didn’t do any repeated or sustained bending.
Cheers. I was given the six weeks no bending advice at meeting today … definitely no heavy lifting or housework
I think the key thing is to listen to your body. When I had my hysterectomy, and had the catheter out the next morning, there was my suitcase on the floor by my bed and I needed things from it. So I gently leaned to see how it felt to get something light from it and it felt fine. So I just went with what felt ok and listened to how I felt at any given time.
I think that listening to your body is key. I move slowly and carefully due to my arthritis and when nurse said no heavy lifting, reaching up to dust, vacuuming I just laughed as I rely on others for those things. She said some patients want to get back to the gym etc
my son will be taking care of things for the first 2-3 weeks and after that will move gently
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