Should I get a 2nd opinion?

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Hi folks. You may have seen my previous post on 'Megestrol Madness' where after two and a half years of unsuccessfully trying to lose enough weight for surgery my Oncologist had decided to go ahead with it. I signed the consent form and later met with the anaesthetist for the next step. Now they've decided not to go ahead with the surgery and have said 'it would be safer' to lose at least another 30 kgs (6 st) over the next 6 months (now 26st). I've now been referred to a gynaecology dietician. I feel let down about the surgery but I understand their reasons, mainly the issue with breathing/weight on the lungs/blood pressure etc. I am now going slightly mad with all this and having depression aswell is not helping with my motivation and care of my health. My Oncologist says I 'have some time' and my cancer is 'slow growing' but I'm wondering if it would be useful or worth it to get a second opinion with another Oncologist and if so just how easy or difficult would it be to do this? I'm worried the bad cells will spread to my blood or elsewhere and I feel leaving it untreated for another 6 months could be even more risky than the surgery. Any thoughts or experiences about 2nd opinions? Thanks. Louise.

FormerMember over 2 years ago

Hi F4fruitcake,

Sorry to hear that your surgery has been put off again. It must be very disappointing for you and I can understand that you're worried re the chance of spread. I personally, would focus on what you've been told by your oncologist/surgeon and plan improvements to your diet. If you are feeling depressed the best medicine for this is exercise/walking in the fresh air, this will help your weight loss and speed up the process.

I know you were considering a second opinion but what if the second opinion tells you the same thing? Best of luck with the dietician and I hope you get some good advice.

A x

Robin27 over 2 years ago

Hi Louise

My heart goes out to you, it must of been very disappointing having your surgery postponed. To loose 6st in 6 months is a big ask but it is achievable. I joined a Slimming world group 4 weeks ago and there was a lady there that has lost a similar amount to that in 6 months.

I've always struggled with my weight so I know what a vicious circle it can be but with the help and support of the Oncology dietician you can do this, we are all here for you too.

Just think this time next year you would of had your operation and will be feeling great and well on the road to recovery and this will all be behind you. You can do this Louise stay positive.

Big hugs Robin x

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